11.11.2018

Another Week


We really dropped the ball on pictures this week. Sorry. All of these were pictures the kids wanted us to take: Herbie's cardboard surfboard before he tossed it, Archie with his primary program talks, perfectly made beds (or mattresses on the floor) by Linus and Penelope, Linus and Archie's tie tying efforts, and Archie's pillow surfing.


Bickering has been a problem since school started. Our last two FHE have concentrated on it. And despite this, Ruby could not get the ending of the word contentious correct. She said things like contentual, contentuous, etc. (Reminds me of my Portuguese.)


Anyway, last week Woo led a family council where we finally made progress when we decided the biggest problem was that the kids just didn't recognize when they were being contentious. We decided on a silent signal to give whenever anyone observed anyone else being contentious. The effect was immediate. There was absolutely no arguing for probably 3 days. No one wanted the signal pointed at them, and when they forgot, the signal would cut off any arguing kid right away. We still are having much more peace.


Except in the case of Herbie and Moses who didn't show up for dinner two nights in a row. We knew where they were both times, but this has never happened before--to them or to us. They definitely know now how we feel about it.

Ruby, Herbie and Moses had a kayaking race. We didn't go to watch because it was 6 hours long, we had no idea when they were racing and the other kids come home for 2 hours at lunch. But it was the most pleasant day of the week, a great day to be outside on a lake, and they enjoyed themselves.


Penelope got her first Book of Mormon revelation (that I know of). I often try to encourage her to pray and get revelation when she's upset, doesn't think something's fair, has her feelings hurt, etc. but she always resists, saying she won't get revelation about those things. Anyway one morning, she recognized herself in Laman and Lemuel in 1 N 15 when Nephi asks, "Have ye inquired of the Lord?" and they say, "we have not, for the Lord maketh no such things known unto us."

She apologized to me and told me she was going to do better.


One night Archie told me the worst part of his day was "the music."
Me: The music?  
Archie: Yeah, people were laughing at me during the music. 
Me: Why would anyone be laughing at you during the music? 
Archie: Because they didn’t like my dancing, (matter-of-factly) which was the best dancing.

Woo had the flu this week, the shortest flu I ever remember him having. To me it lasted a day and a half. (It was probably a day longer to him.) He used to get sick for weeks whenever he would get sick. He also worked towards renewing the registration on the van, went surfing, did a bunch of work, family stuff and church stuff.

Saturday Linus helped me make cookies and he led Penelope and Archie around the neighborhood to deliver them to friends. They came home a third of the way through to resolve an argument of who to deliver cookies to when someone wasn't home. Left again. Came home again to grab more cookies for a bunch of friends they'd discovered at the park, and came home in the end, feeling they'd done some good in the world.

I made sure everything was in place for the primary program. I kept it as simple as possible and I only have 5 primary kids, but there were still some stressful moments. Mostly this week I worked on floor plans, which is too much fun for me right now.

That's all for now. Hope your week was great!

11.04.2018

Some Stuff and Other Stuff


This morning Herbie and Moses picked up their best friends and brought them to church! It is the first time we've ever been able to get anyone here to come to church with us. The friends enjoyed themselves and Herbie and Moses were great hosts. Moses even encouraged his friend to help him pick up hymn books with him after sacrament meeting by making it a game.


After I learned more about my spiritual gifts, of course I encouraged all the kids to pray about theirs. I'm not going to list what everyone got, just a few notes...

Ruby: Music (kind of a surprise), and humility, if she wants it and works on it.

Moses: Sports and making people laugh (not a surprise), but he wasn't sure how those would help people. He prayed again and learned he could use those gifts to help people who aren't good at sports to feel better about themselves.


Penelope's was also not a surprise; it was love. But how she could do it better was. She learned that she should stop jumping up on me when giving me a hug. And she stopped. How much more pleasant her hugs have become, and I can stop telling her to stop.


Ruby got her first "muito bom" of the year. It was the first thing out of her mouth when she got home, and she gave us a blow-by-blow account of how the tests were handed out and everything everyone said. She was super happy, and especially because it was in history (of Portugal). One of her weakest subjects last year.


Herbie finished the Book of Mormon in Portuguese for the 4th time this week.


Linus has really been getting into the Book of Mormon during his reading time. He LOVES Captain Moroni, and he even sometimes laughed (?!) when reading about sneaky war strategy.

Our time changed last Sunday. Kids have been, well, like they always are when the time changes in the fall; although, I hardly think about it any more, and even Woo will say, "They're just tired," when they are constantly bickering. They seem to be okay in school, though.


I had to smile while picking up Archie from school. He was the only one sitting quietly on the rug, looking at his teacher. All the other 3-5 yr olds were wriggling, jumping, rolling around on the rug... with the teacher desperately trying to get them to at least sit. Felt kind of like my house.


We had a branch activity this week, on a day with no school. Woo ran the whole thing, organized it and us, kept us entertained and mostly happy, and I believe he stayed 5 1/2 hours! 3 hours is my absolute upper limit at a social event (which may go down to 2 as I lose my 3 hr Sunday conditioning?). I was about to throw a tantrum myself. I took the 3 younger kids home to bed, while Woo soldiered on and Linus threw the tantrum as I pulled him out the front door.

I wasted too much time looking for a CAD program before I realized that's not really what I wanted. What I really wanted was something more like Illustrator. (Sorry, everyone that's obvious to... it's been a long time.) I found a free program I really like called Gravit. I like it now, but took me awhile to find a work around to a missing tool I really like in Illustrator. But, after I got that, I was zipping along.

As I work, I realize I actually know quite a lot about drawing house plans, and I'm recognizing that Kurt taught me pretty much all of it. I'm pulling out of the back of my brain all sorts of measurements, associated with a memory of him telling them to me; also ways to save labor and money; and of course, the all important instruction to pay special attention to what wall you put the toilet on. No one wants to hear flushing while they're sitting down to dinner. At least according to Kurt. (And okay, all the rest of us.)

Here we are practicing for the primary program next week.


Woo is amused by this "Bad Cat college" jacket someone gave Ruby.


And most of the pictures are from exploring little caves with some friends, which was a fun Saturday activity.

Well, that's about it. Hope your week was great!

Testimony Below:

I love the Book of Mormon. I have prayed about it and felt the Holy Ghost witness to me that it is true.

I read the Book of Mormon every day and every time I read it and try to learn something or to feel peace, I receive the Holy Ghost again.

Over time, reading the Book of Mormon heals us of our weaknesses. This happens because the Book of Mormon testifies of Jesus Christ. We come unto Christ and we follow him when we read it, and his atonement has power to work in us.

I know that Jesus Christ lives, and that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is led by him.
In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

*************

Eu amo o Livro de Mórmon. Eu orei sobre o Livro e o Espírito Santo testificou para mim que é verdade.

Eu leio o Livro de Mórmon todos os dias e toda vez que leio e tento aprender algo ou sentir paz, eu recebo o Espírito Santo novamente.

Com o tempo, a leitura do Livro de Mórmon nos cura nossas fraquezas. Isso acontece porque o Livro de Mórmon testifica a Jesus Cristo. Nós nos achegamos a Cristo e o seguimos quando lemos o Livro de Mórmon, e sua expiação tem poder para operar em nós.

Eu sei que Jesus Cristo vive e que a Igreja de Jesus Cristo dos Santos dos Últimos Dias é guiada por ele.

Em nome de Jesus Cristo. Amém.

10.28.2018

The Book and Architecture Family


Moses and Herbie decided to write a graphic novel together (in answer to their prayer, "What should I do when I'm bored?"). They had so much fun and were so excited, they inspired Penelope to write a book in Portuguese about a magic closet with two main characters named Jake and Anie. Linus began a series of six books. The first called "The Super Watermelon"... other super fruits to follow...

And Archie spent about 3 hours Monday working on "Ae and the Sword," a ninja book with lots of fires and BOOOOOOMS!

I sat down to work on my book and he laid on the floor to work on his.
Archie: I know! We can be the book family! 
To Woo's relief and my chagrin, enthusiasm died quite a bit during the week.


Ruby's attitude seems to follow a predictable pattern: Monday-Wednesday absolutely awesome, Thursday-Friday mostly awesome, Saturday bad mood and Sunday is a toss up.

I think she just gets tired at the end of a long week, and on Monday she's fresh and ready to go again.

She's been studying hard, but the "muito bom" has so far eluded her on her midterms... except English, of course. Moses was the first to get a non-English "muito bom" in History and Geography of Portugal. Although, a straight line of "boms" is much better than their midterms at this time last year.


Herbie invested a lot of emotion into a valiant, but failed attempt to get us to buy him a phone (or let him buy one). He was not happy when he went to bed, but his revelation said what it always says when he has a disagreement with us (listen to your mom and dad... and how great that is!).

In his free time from school this week Herbie did family history (like he always does, by choice), and then went for a quick surf with Woo. They were the only ones in the water that early and came home cold.


Moses and Archie made cookies on one of their afternoons together. One thing I really like about the kids school schedule is that it builds relationships between the kids who aren't each other's natural buddy. (Moses and Ruby walking to school and back without Herbie a few times a week is another.) Archie LOVES hanging out with his big brother Moses.


Linus and Penelope both were invited to birthday parties this week. They were super excited and didn't sleep well. While buying presents, we found the kid sunglasses display, and everyone had to get some. Kids and sunglasses last about 2 days; although Linus has stretched it for like 2 months before, but they're so cheap at the Chinese store and the kids love them so much, I couldn't resist letting them buy some.

The metric system isn't 100% with some of us yet, apparently.
Penelope (holding up a milk carton): This weighs 2,000 kilometers! Did you know that? ... and I weigh 22.4 kilometers!
It's a long story (and Woo's better at those than I am anyway), but Woo finally went teaching with the missionaries last night. He wishes it happened more often; he always feels great after bearing his testimony about the Book of Mormon or any other gospel principle. I know he does a great job of explaining things when they are completely new to someone. He really loves companionships of missionaries who frequently invite him. I wish he could go more often too.


Today I'm fasting over President Nelson's talk in conference--"Tonight I urge you, with all the hope of my heart, to pray to understand your spiritual gifts—to cultivate, use, and expand them, even more than you ever have. You will change the world as you do so."

I was kind of surprised that right off the bat I got one: meekness. It's a gift for me obviously, but not perfect at yet. There's more work to be done and my mind was opened a bit in those ways last night. Another was faith. But these are the kinds of things I was expecting. The last one was not. I don't even know the technical term, maybe design?

But, I got the impression that I need to start designing a house for our family. And I'm not talking about sketching a few things, collecting pictures, color swatches and writing lists. I need to draw actual, functional house plans. I almost started to cry because I was tired; it was time to go to bed; and because I'm already slowly working on big projects I was inspired to do years ago (see book above).

Sometimes in the past, Woo's been hesitant when I talk about building a house, because I think 2 million dollars immediately flashed before his eyes. Other times, he has encouraged me by sending me links to rendering programs. But this time (maybe in response to my own overwhelmed feelings) he reminded me that I'm good at doing things a little bit at a time over long periods of time. And it's true; I am. Another spiritual gift?

Anyway, long story short, I did figure out when I can carve out a sliver of time in my weekday life, and in 2 or 3 years I'll have floor plans! Goal for next week: find a free CAD program I don't hate.

The kids were all super excited when I told them this morning. Moses has not been able to think of anything else. He, Linus, Herbie and Archie have already drawn quick sketches of their dream rooms for me. They all have a trap door or secret passageway, which I'm definitely not opposed to.

Well, that's our week. Hope yours was great!

10.21.2018

The Peculiar Family Among Us


Last year we missed all of the pro male world surf competition when it was here. This year we went way too many times.
Woo (on our way home yesterday): And now let us never speak of this again. Until next year.
Yesterday was nuts--way too many people. I ended up taking Archie and Nellpea a ways down the beach and just letting them play in the sand without bothering other people. They don't care it they get to watch people surf, and I don't really either.

But the other days there were fewer people and it was easier to see. Many pros were happy to take a picture with Moses (and his dirty shirt that I swore I told him to change) when they got out of the water.


Others were less happy (although, it almost looks like they're holding hands).


Herbie and Archie went on the day when they got to stand on the giant deck chair and where free buffs were handed out. Which meant that Archie went to school dressed as a ninja the next day. (Our kids think buffs make the best ninja masks.)


Linus came home from school and said they spent some time talking about the chores our kids do at home. We're an oddity, and the kids often say their teacher will hold a discussion centered around them about living in America or religious differences, but this is the first time (that I know of) they've wanted to talk about the kids' jobs.


I didn't even know Linus' teacher knew about them, but I did post them to Facebook, so I guess word got around. Linus was very proud to say that he does the laundry and he does it TWICE a day. The kids in his class were astonished.


Penelope taught our FHE lesson last week. One thing I can say is that our kids know how to ask good discussion questions. Once you know what they are; they're easy, and you can teach a good lesson with 5 minutes prep.

Penelope had more than 5 minutes prep. She wanted to teach a lesson on How to be More Like Jesus (her favorite topic). She thought of her questions, found a couple scriptures, decided on a testimony and then made one of those paper fortune tellers (my kids call them cootie catchers), with a bunch of suggestions (pray to be nice to brothers and sisters, make a friend who doesn't have a friend, teach people about the gospel, invite a friend to church, etc.) It was pretty clever and a fun lesson.


Woo had to pick Ruby up one day from school for lunch. She'd had PE... they were running lengths...  she had to get a certain number in a certain amount of time to get a "muito bom"... she twisted her ankle, and then kept running to get her "muito bom." When it was over, she couldn't walk.

To avoid traffic Woo parked quite a ways away, and had to give her a piggy back, but he got her home. Luckily she didn't need to go back to school that day, had less walking than normal the day after that, and then she was fine.


She didn't go back to school because it was a kayaking day. Herbie and Moses set off alone, but because of a storm earlier in the day, the swell was huge and the coast guard wouldn't allow anyone in the water. Instead, Herbie and Moses also spent time talking to their coach about our family (he asked them if Woo was a pastor :), and then came home early.

And Woo and I went out to eat for our 15th anniversary. Eating out here has been mostly a frustrating experience, and while the food was okay, mostly we just discovered another restaurant we never need to visit again.

And here I am licking off my plate for, I believe, the very first time in my life. I'm sorry Mom and Dad. I had my reasons...


That's about it. Hope you had a great week!

10.14.2018

Hurricanes and Other Stuff


We dropped the ball on pictures this week, but the kids were much better. There were no problems at all, except the 3 or 4 tantrums Linus threw. Hopefully, he'll pull himself together next week.

Herbie and Moses are super excited because they introduced their two best friends (who are brothers) to the Sisters. They and their mom are now meeting with the Sisters and things seem to be going very well; although they have not been to church yet. Moses is working on a Book of Mormon cover for his friend right now.


We had heard nothing about a hurricane headed this way until Woo's dad texted yesterday afternoon. Then we found a lot of sensational headlines predicting the storm of the century. No one here was concerned at all. It turns out fishermen know their storms.

We did get some water and fill the house with food, just in case. Wind and rain started about 7pm. I moved all the kids sleeping on the upper level down to be with the rest of us around 9pm. Minutes after that the wind died and remained silent. The storm completely fizzled into nothing.


Here's kind of a cool thing Woo discovered a couple weeks ago... Svoboda is the name of the czech family line I've been researching, and we've been doing their temple work for the past two years. Anyway, Woo discovered that the word svoboda means freedom in English.

It brings to mind things like this: "The Messiah should be made manifest unto them in the latter days, in the spirit of power, unto the bringing of them out of darkness unto light--yea, out of hidden darkness and out of captivity unto freedom." or one of my personal favorites: "For the prisoners shall go free."


Ruby, Herbie and Moses made it to kayaking for the first time this week. They had a lot of fun; although, there was some complaining of Ruby ramming into or splashing her brothers on purpose, and they were exposed to the sailing team, who were all zipping around in tiny sailboats made for one or two people. They all wished that was what they could be doing.


Linus, Penelope and Archie went to the beach with their school to pick up garbage. Archie's teacher said he did a great job of actually picking up garbage while they were there (something I imagine might be difficult for 3-5 yr olds with the temptation of the sand and the dunes).

Linus wore his Elmo hat in anticipation of his morning on the beach. Looking at him, I realized I hadn't seen any Sesame Street stuff in Portugal.
Me: Does everyone know Elmo here?  
Archie: Do they believe in him?
Linus said no to both questions. Most kids think he's wearing an Angry Birds hat.

Penelope cut her hair once last week. Then she (or a friend--I haven't gotten a clear answer yet...) cut it again to attempt bangs. I've tried to fix it a bit. Anyway, this is what we have now:


I love conference, but the last couple, I've had kind of a weird feeling while watching it (never while reading)... attributed solely to my pride, probably... but where I feel lost in a crowd, listening to a speaker address everyone in the world, while I've wanted something more personal, something just for me.

Anyway, I said a little prayer about it last week and forgot about it. Then on the last talk I watched--President Nelson's talk in the women's session--three times he said something exactly the same as my back-to-school blessing from Woo. Then I remembered my prayer. That was the answer.

This is what I attempted to bear my testimony about today, but I completely forgot it was testimony meeting until it was about to start and my Portuguese was a bit of a mess. I'm not going to try to recreate it.

I hope you had a great week!